In this case they would not accept her as a member of the family and would try to get rid of her. If you see a nice dress on a woman, or if you become interested in some furnishings that you have seen at a friend's or relative's house, do not compel your husband to purchase them which is beyond his financial means and would force him to borrow. If you want us to have a good relationship with you, then do not interfere in our lives, do not talk behind my husband, otherwise I will have to cut off my relationship with you.". If she continues to live with her husband, then she, along with her husband, and the children, would suffer .In the case of divorce she would probably have to go to live with her parents. Women have great power and influence over men. Vitamins are also important for the growth, strengthening the bones, regulating the chemical reactions in the body, and are vital in maintaining a healthy nervous system. It appears to me that many of us need to swiftly update our thinking as it pertains to the modern day woman’s role in relationships. It is not meant for showing off or filling one's stomach. With a strong will-power and patience, it is possible to overcome the difficulties as long as one does not let the problems get the better of you. If he sees that there is not any reaction to his anger, he would even apologize. Leave all the cutlery in one place and place the dishes somewhere else. If you look around yourself, you see tens of such unfortunate people. If you are late in coming home, then immediately tell your wife the reason. The following is such a case: "A woman said in the court: 'Mr... used to talk behind my husband- in order to cause a clash between me and my husband. Therefore, anticipate his expectations and needs. She would use abusive language with me on every possible occasion and over the smallest issue, would make fun of me. Give the books to him and encourage him to read them. If anybody wants to see him or talk to him, tell them he is busy. He shares with you all the hardships of life and as your true partner cares for your happiness even more than your parents. "5, "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.) stated: 'Two Rak'ats (units) of a married person's Salat (prayer) are better than seventy Rak'ats offered by a bachelor'."6. There will be other occasions and there will be a few more days of bitterness. 72. "A woman said: 'We had a good tradition in Iran which has unfortunately faded away gradually. He may be a very patient person who can tolerate his rudeness but most likely he will become insulted and develop a grudge against her. So by being well-mannered and sacrificing, prove that you are worthy of him. When your husband comes home, try to have a smile and a warm greeting for him. You may follow whichever you prefer while entertaining your guests: Case (a): The man informs his wife that on Friday night, ten of his friends are coming for dinner His wife who has had bitter experience with previous parties, suddenly becomes enraged and protests to her husband. Keep his room silent in the daytime. Allow her to monitor you. She would read his letters and would explain any trivial matter as due to his unfaithfulness. If the motive is … "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'There is nothing worse for human beings than to seek the faults of others, while ignoring their own flaws'."45. Once you have prepared the room and his requirements, leave him. If he is a medical doctor, make him read the medical journals and other related articles. When an uncontinuous gets in stride with another uncontinious, there is a clash. "The Prophet (S) of Islam stated: ' Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, enters Paradise'. Therefore, should a man express his opinion about any point in the household matters or suggest any thing, the wife should not oppose him or deny him his right of directorship in any way. In order for the human being to be able to cope with the burdens of life it is necessary to have someone to listen to and sympathize with him. But a wise woman would monitor her husband's activities and watch his associates indirectly without his knowledge. It is a little society from which greater societies are formed. She may even have to bring up the children of a man whose wife is dead. Love comes with understanding. "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated: 'Almighty Allah likes adornment, being beautiful, and finds the pretention of being poor as distasteful. They have enjoyed the meal and have admired the housewife for her ability to entertain them. She should be proud of housekeeping and should prove that an educated housewife is much better than an uneducated one. Do not imagine for a second that the position of the man is being defended here and that he is not guilty. You can make the most out of your spare minutes or hours. After a detailed discussion and the husband's pleading, the reluctant wife agrees to arrange the dinner for his guests. Instead of waiting an hour or two for him to regain his spirits, they start attacking him with a barrage of complaints. You would do a great deal of service to yourself both mentally and materialistically. There is no one more devoted and concerned over your husband's well-being other than yourself. Now that I have my health back I am not prepared to live with a woman who prefers her money to her husband. "'18, "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.) stated: 'A woman who respects her husband and does not harass him, will be fortunate and prosperous'. Women usually like to know about their husbands' secrets, their earnings, their decisions about the future, and their work. If you are upset with him, be patient. After every feeding, you should boil the bottle and its nipple, and extra car must be taken during the hot seasons. Age, size of the body and other possible factors determine the level of our nutritional requirements. You can also use pasteurized milk, which you should boil for twenty minutes or until it becomes safe for babies' consumption. Not all women deserve such hardworking men. If the proof of your husband's guilt is not a firm proof towards your husband's guilt, if your friends and relatives think that the evidence is not enough, if your husband regards himself as not guilty, and finally if you are still suspicious of him, then you can be sure that you are ill. You are suffering from a mental disorder in which the element of suspicion has grown beyond your control. "The Prophet (S) stated: 'A woman's Jihad is when she attends to her husband (and takes care of him well)'." What should one do? If your mother, as a result of your suggestion, stops interfering, then you will not be disturbed. Believe me these horoscopes have turned the lives of mine and my children into ruins. Vaccines are fortunately readily available in medical and health centers. Children have a different feeding pattern as compared with that of adults. Whenever you suspect anything, you should discuss it with your husband in such a manner as to find the truth of the matter out and not in a way of protest. IMPORTANT : All content hosted on Al-Islam.org is solely for non-commercial purposes and with the permission of original copyright holders. It isn’t in the nature of a man. It destroys friendly atmospheres and sows the seed of discord among families. They come in one after another. Stop being frivolous! But a miser would not eat the offered food by others lest they eat his'." It is a shelter for the man who takes refuge in it after the work. Mankind is not satisfied even with its own planet, so it has stepped onto other planets. Gradually, my husband became disappointed with me and thought of divorcing me and remarrying. They must avoid mixing with men who are not mahram as much as possible. If he had not slept that night, then express your sorrow. You should treat him in such a way that if you behave well towards him, you will be sure of being rewarded and if you behave badly towards him, you will be sure of receiving punishment'.'' However, running the affairs of such a unit needs a manager who can coordinate the duties. Do not endanger their lives by being careless. Finally, I got divorced but soon regretted it. When she finds me sad and unhappy, she then, by consoling me says: 'If you are thinking of sustenance, then do not despair, because Allah provides sustenance; and if you are thinking about the next life, then may Allah increase your intellect and efforts. The values in the above illustration are not only important values in a relationship, but they are important values in society as well. Nowadays, however, the situation is changed, and families cannot make their minds up as to who should be in charge. He may insult you, abuse you, tell lies, he might even hit you. When the husband is on a trip, the woman should write letters expressing that she missed him. Dear lady! When he is thanked and appreciated for doing his duty, those duties no longer seem to be a burden. If he gets what he wants through crying, then he will pick up this attitude and use it even when he becomes an adult. The children were on their own in their house. The Quran, the holiest book in Islam, indicates that men and women are spiritual equals.The Quran 4:124.5 states: "If any do deeds of righteousness be they male or female and have faith, they will enter Heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them." The best attitude is that both man and wife give up arguing and try to be logical. The woman does something else, and the man does the same until they become tired and, through the mediation of relatives or friends, reconcile. By the way, your husband is such a grim faced man. Do not pile up dirty dishes. Every time I protested she said that housekeeping was not meant for an educated woman. The man must answer that his wife is busy cooking and she will be with them soon. You might end up getting a divorce in which case you would lose more than your husband. While considering the possibilities, consider a higher status for your husband and encourage him to achieve it. The sexual duties of a submissive are often varied and numerous. You must nurse him, attend to his needs, and spend money for him. Mothers who feed their babies with their own milk can, through carelessness about their food, damage their own health as well as of their babies. Spend more time and effort for the well-being of your family and husband rather than trying to imitate everyone. Human beings are by nature potentially able to make progress. The child nutritive experts say that a baby must be fed with milk once every three to four hours. No claim, no blame – that is the art of a woman. She looks for the knife to cut the onions, searches the house for salt, etc. Generally, the relationship is stable and at least semi-permanent, but the couple does not live together openly and the relationship is usually, but not always, secret. It serves as a drive to the man's working life and encourages the parents to care for their family. Is it possible to consider your foolish and baseless theories as proof of an important crime such as adultery? 80. Although your husband's money and wealth is at your disposal, do not regard it as your own. I have been worried about this and my suspicion has increased due to what our neighbours are saying. She should implement them if they did not contradict or endanger her family bonds. The majority of one's weight is water. They think about it every day and night. Being not dressed as per Islamic Hijab before these people is a sin and may also cause great distress to your husband, even though he may never mention it. Tell your friends and relatives to visit you when your husband is not busy. "51, One may have to live away from one's hometown. "Now that I am married, it is better for me to try to protect my marriage, and keep my husband satisfied. "Imam Ali (a.s) stated: 'The chest of a wise man is the safe for his secrets'." This is a situation where the wisdom and cleverness of some women can become useful and apparent. "At a time when two Muslims refuse to talk to each other and do not reconcile within three days, both will be out of Islam, and there will not remain any friendship between them. Your true friends would not be upset by your demand. Perhaps he does not regard you as a person who could keep a secret. Unfortunately, this characteristic is so widespread among the people that it does not even seem bad any more. A faithful, pious, and harmonious partner plays a crucial role in having a respectable and honest life. While some women work at home, there are others who prefer an outside job. Be forgiving so that Allah will cherish you'."92. There is a general proverb which says: "Even if one's flesh is eaten by relations, they would not throw away the bones! At least one should not regard it as firm evidence of guilt while forgetting about the other possibilities. Therefore, some parties are accompanied with the anxiety of the host couple as a result of which people tend to avoid having a party. He should eat less sweets, fat, and cream, but more eggs, liver, poultry, red meat, fish and cheese. Even though everyone is pursuing for progress, not all are successful. Notice how he talks about other women. Now let us read the opinion of a few educated women about being a housewife: "Mrs. F. N. Shamirani, a graduate, said: 'A housewife should be an expert in dealing with the household affairs, a good companion for her husband, a good mother to her children and a good hostess to the guests'. You should not display your beauty and adornments to strangers, be it in the house with your close relations or at other social gatherings outside your own home. Now I am asking the court to punish him'. My poor daughter!". Placing such items as luxury goods on the list of one's priorities is regarded as squandering and wasteful. 139. The woman moans, then the man does. You should ponder over your previous acts carefully. You should remember that if your husband reacts harshly towards you for not speaking with him, then he might even resort to severe measures such as hitting you. In Genesis 2 we see that Adam was created before Eve. "A young woman complained to the court and said: 'My husband is coming home late every night on account of overtime at his work. Consult your husband before taking up a job. (e) If a woman feels that, in addition to the above works and responsibilities, she should under take another job, then she should definitely come to an understanding with her husband and take up a job with his permission and under his advice. The heart of a human being thrives on it. One must prepare the ground and remove the obstacles after which one must take the necessary steps in the path of progress. With this approach the family gets back to a normal situation after only an hour or two. The statistics on divorce conclusively indicate that the compatible attitude, moral values and disposition was non-existent in the couples. If a woman decides to save her husband from the filth of corruption, she can do it. If your husband suspects that you show interest in other men, he would be disheartened and would lose interest in you. There is not anyone who does not have problems and grievances with regard to daily life. Be wise? The wealth is lawfully his and you are the trusted one. How can you live with him? However, if you are still in doubt, investigate through other channels. It is customary with most women that whenever they go to a party or a gathering, they wear their best dresses and adorn themselves with the best. Talks of this kind can be heard among a fairly large percentage of the female population of any society. You will consequently see that his merits outweigh his faults. Such an expectation is neither lawful nor fair. I was then deceived by others and later committed theft'." They drank the solution in order to quench their thirst. Dear lady! Such a woman, who is not prepared to spend her money for the treatment of her husband, does not deserve the respected position of 'wifehood'. Some people live in this way either temporarily or permanently. He naturally feels that he must support her and make her happy. You can judge for yourself. Perhaps none of them intended to fall in the trap or become corrupt, but through their own simplicity, ignorance, and unthoughtfulness, they are now preyed upon by the corrupt in society. I wish she would throwaway those torn and worn out clothes. Having many luxurious items would not beautify a house, but the manner in which the household contents are arranged, would make it attractive. I have no one in this place. Every night I have nightmares. ", "All these children were taken to hospital for treatment." Women, however, should also have a job. For instance, a child, who is growing, need more calcium in comparison with a middle-aged person. After a while, with the help and supervision of your husband, try to make friends from among the chaste and trustworthy women. How do you know that a similar fate is not awaiting you? He should not waste his life by not doing anything, but he should work and offer his share in building a better world. I do not know what such women want to achieve by their grumbling. One of the important duties of women is caring for their children. If your husband has a private desk or a safe; and if he does not let you read his letters, do not think of him as having a mistress. Then the Prophet (S) stated: ' Allah surely has functionaries and agents in this world and your wife is one of those. "In a tradition, the Holy Prophet (S) stated: 'Any woman who is not compatible with her husband and persuades him to act beyond his capacity, then her deeds would not be accepted by Allah. In the police station the woman said that, after three years of marriage, she gradually felt that she did not love her husband. History tells us that the Prophet (S), one day after the wedding of Imam Ali (a.s) and Hadrat Zahra (a.s), went to congratulate them in their house and know about their welfare. Why should you shatter your life for the sake of something unimportant? Dear Madam! Accept the authority of your husband. If a woman plans the affairs of such a house in such a way that her husband can get on with his job, surely she has accomplished a valuable task. In short, they can win their husband's hearts and establish themselves in their families. So try to look attractive at home and be sure that he will not lose interest in you. Do not forget that deadly germs grow on dirt and can become fatal to you and your family. "40, "The Messenger (SA) of Allah stated: 'Whoever does not thank the people who help him is, in fact, not showing his gratitude to Allah for His Blessings'."41. Budget your expenditures in a way that it is not detrimental to your wealth and honor. If they are your true friends, then they should not be hurt and should even thank you. (b) Since, through his studies and research, he has conformed with the laws of creation, he would be less prone to mental and nervous disorders. In her husband's house, a woman should give priority to her husband's needs. The women who have not perceived the true purpose and meaning of marriage and instead they regard it in terms of bondage where the husband is acquired to fulfill their childish desires and material needs. Dear Madam! Everyone has a job and jobs are different. I read a weekly magazine which has a proper section on fortune telling. Do not let him deviate from the path which has been paved by the order to creation. When you deal with a man, you deal with a most unpredictable character. Women must encourage their men in these activities and cooperate with them if necessary. When I went to pick her up that night she refused to come with me. The wife suddenly got up and started beating her husband in front of the judges'." Do not think that this is too ambitious for a housewife. The pleasant impression is fresh in their minds as they start off to school or work and helps them to make a good start of the day. Dear Madam! But the point to remember is that "there is a time and place for everything". Tomorrow's world will suffer with today's bad- tempered, stubborn, ignorant, cowardly, materialistic, nasty, careless, selfish and cruel children. Marriage does require a man and woman having and fulfilling roles and duties. You might find that your new friends are better than your old ones. 121, "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'Associating with friends causes kindness (amongst them)'." Ask him firmly to tell you the truth. If through reading, you come across an article which is useful for your husband, then inform him of it. If one monitors his food and cares for his eating habits, he would become ill less frequently. The most sensitive responsibility of a mother is her duty to educate and train her children. A pious couple, not only would not meet with any obstacle in achieving religious goals, but would be a source of encouragement to each other. On the other hand, if you feed the baby whenever he cries, then he will not learn to be disciplined. A person who is not married resembles a bird without a nest. But one looks and finds a woman who is so improvident that she is not prepared to live a few miles away from her hometown. Thus, mothers who feed their babies with their own milk must remember that all the necessary nutrition for their babies are contained within that milk. IKYTA is a global association of Kundalini Yoga Teachers. The reader has certainly come across such women, but it is useful to know of the following cases: "A woman said in the family court: 'Do not be surprised as to why, after twelve years of married life and three small children, I have decided upon a separation from my husband. A house, although a little place, is a precious blessing. They should practically prove that being educated does not contradict the position of being a housewife, but that it also helps in being a better housewife. How did your parents allow you to do this? In a gathering it is rare not to hear gossiping and backbiting. ", "Another child swallowed ten of her mother's tablets. As a result the woman would not become tired with her job. They work hard and spend their earnings on their wives and children. You will be loved by your husband and would earn popularity amongst the people. Feminine roles, on the other hand, are generally more sensitive, nurturing and intuitive. Winning the heart of a man, especially for a long time, is not easy. One can become depressed and frustrated from being idle. Therefore, there will be a need for privacy and silence. Do not go to any courts. Some of these problems may be the pressures of work, the hassles of traffic and commuting from the office to home, concerns over economical and political issues of the day, empathy and concern for friends and colleagues, and the pressures of trying to improve the living conditions of his family. A wise person would make the most out of his precious hours of life. Talk to her about your day. Men can, through patience and forgiveness, save themselves from trouble and also help eliminate the element of suspicion in their wives. the role of a women or a man in a relationship for me is the same as i believe that in a relationship compromises and responsibilities have to be shared . Otherwise, running an ordinary family life is not an extraordinary task. Thirdly, it attracts the man to his house and his wife. When he is knocking at the door you should try to open the door with a smile and a happy expression. 97, "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: ' A dirty person is a bad servant (to Allah)'. Being the nurse. Encourage him to read books. Part 1: The Duties of Women The Purpose of Marriage. Must you withhold your wealth in preference to your husband's health? Thus for a baby there is nothing more suitable than the mother's milk. I am fed up with all of them. Well, the only real cause is the lack of experience and know-how of the housewife about how to entertain her guests. Soon I realized the dangers. "2, "The Prophet of Allah (swt) stated: 'Whoever chooses to follow my tradition must get married and produce offspring through marriage (and increase the population of Muslims) so that on the day of resurrection I shall confront other Ummah (nations) with the (great) numbers of my Ummah'. "56, "A woman, complaining to the court, said: 'One of my friends told me that my husband goes to a stranger woman's house. Of course all women are not like this. 128, "Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.) also stated: 'Too much sleep wastes and ruins both one's worldly life and the religion (the life in the world Hereafter)'. Whenever your man is sick, it is your core duty as the girlfriend to be there for him and help him. Do you not realize that in the ups and downs of life, one might need the help of others, and especially of relatives who would support you when everyone else deserts you? Dirty clothes must have their own place. A great deal of emphasis has been given in the Holy Qur'an and the Traditions to both marriage and having children. The guests did not enjoy the party either, because they felt that they had caused a lot of trouble for their hosts and they probably wished that they had not come at all. "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The best of your women is one who perfumes herself, prepares food skillfully and would not overindulge in spending. "The Prophet of Allah (S) stated: 'The Paradise is under the feet of mothers'." pollution and uncleanliness takes its abode there'." You must always use fresh powdered milk. A pious person would always invite his partner to goodness, just as a corrupt person would tempt his partner towards corruption. Seek his supervision in your household affairs. All of a sudden the door bell rings. Unfortunately some women are affected by this disease. Teach your children to respect his authority, and ask them to get permission from their father in their affairs. However, if the acts of goodwill are taken for granted and unappreciated, the person may lose the desire and drive to do good. They, too, were housewives but the ones who did not waste their spare time. Anyway, there are two choices for the daughter: She is able to do whatever she wills if she puts her mind to it. I can't stand this damned house any longer, looking after your and your children. 88. Nurseries, primary and high schools are suitable places for women to train and teach female students. It is therefore better to reduce your consumption of these substances. A marriage without a child is like a fruitless tree. The prosperity and happiness as well as the misery of the family are in her hands. I love him and there is nothing wrong with him.". You must put aside your past wishes and forget those past offers. Public Relations Job Description Template. It is therefore evident that more than seventy per cent of family rows were due to this factor'. I am going crazy with the noise of the kids outside. He then intends to serve them with tea, but he finds out that tea is not ready. Do not react harshly to her impoliteness or allegations. I dropped her at her parents' house and went to work. He used to be the boss. You can gradually feed him with slight amounts of your own food. They may want to pretend that they are sympathetic. Your flow of metabolism changes all the time. They would listen to repeated words which only prove to be time wasting and nerve breaking. Is it not a pity for an educated woman to give up all her knowledge? Health or illness, beauty or ugliness, even good or bad temperedness, and cleverness of children are all related to the way they are fed. '"3, "Imam Rida (a.s) stated: 'The greatest gain for a man is a faithful woman who, when she sees him, becomes happy and protects his property and her own honor in his absence'."4. It has been equated to the role of Jihad (holy war in the path of Allah). What is this place you have brought me? Such a child may learn many stories about good and pious people, but to no avail. 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